I went to a school reunion and reconnected with some old school peers a while ago. I don’t see them much in real life but have them on social media. Some people you meet again and you kind of clash on some level. I was happy to reconnect with one bloke but I am not the nicest person to deal with. If I feel something is immature or pointless I just come out with it. If someone is happy to call me a hippy or evil for my opinions I don’t see that as critical thinking.
If someone is in a dark place and talks about how much they love drugs, drinking, gambling, porn or whatever I don’t care to be honest. Yet once I get odd messages and bombarded with noisy texts the alarm bells start ringing. I normally give people three chances. I am not asking for them to change, I am asking for them to help themselves. I will explain the third and last interaction.
I get these texts about how much this dude needs a woman. He asks me do I have any women? I knew exactly where this headed but said I have some women friends and its great having friends because there is no drama. He then sends me an image of a women with a dildo in her arse and some sex toy near her vagina. Then he mentions a friend of mine and says how she could save him.
I tell him that nobody can save him except himself, then I say I am her friend not her pimp. I said initially why are you telling me then that I am not a pimp. he says I am mean and evil. I block his number and block him on all socials. He was the kind of guy who was in a dark place and he said the day I met him that nobody could help him. What a contradiction. I don’t have time for this shit.
Do people think I have female friends because I am a pervert and sicko? What has this society come to that you got grown men who have no idea about reality. I don’t look for friends because of their biological sex organs. What the fuck is that shit? You just have friends because you get along and have a laugh. This is the stuff this sick society allows to propagate for the enslavement of people to meaningless ends.
derekjamescarter 
Were you more disturbed that he even thought you would help him or by his pornography to real-life redemption psychosis? I suppose both are equally repulsive. I don’t think there is a single person connected to a digital medium that isn’t suffering from some form of disassociation. Better to avoid the more pronounced pathologies that arise. It’s not going to get better.
I think I was more disturbed that I can’t get through to him. I have tried on a few occasions when he has presented his problems. He is just kind of stuck in a bubble.